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| darkninjacustoms Posts: 1/3 |
"CUT THE FUCKING CORD"
well put, take your own advice and quit bitching. I figger you're like 18? You have a job, you probably have a friend or 2 around your age with a job thats wants to move out...put two and 2 together and move out. If you aren't comfortable enough yet to move out on your own, then you need to make things work out for you. Bitching to people here isn't going to help your problems. You might feel better bitching about how terrible your mom is, but it won't solve a problem in the real world. There has to be something you can say/do/not do to keep your mom out of striking distance. If not then take your verbal beating with a smile and remember that you aren't paying to live on your own yet. it's not that hard of a decision really. Me? I still live at home, but I'm also running a very lucrative custom shop based out of white city. My parents want me to stay here and I don't see a reason to move out yet. I pay for my expenses as far as insurance, credit cards, gas, internets, and my parents pay utilities. We fight occasionally, usually about me picking up project car(s) but things always work out. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| The Accidental Protege Posts: 787/2641 |
Portland Maine is nice. I'm moving up there is June, and I could use some company. Dude, homes are so inexpensive there. Our house we're buying is 320 grand. The house we have now in NJ is smaller, and we're selling it for 800 grand. Go for it, compadre. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Kaijin Surohm Posts: 847/1852 |
trust me, if it would work, I'd use it.
I've tryed it already, and all it does is set her off even more... There is litturally nothing I can do that will shut her up, and keep the arguement for happening. If I yell, it sets her off. If I keep what I'm doing and listen, is pisses her off insanely that I'm not looking at her. If I have my hand on my hip from beign tired of it hanging around, it pisses her off. It pisses her off if I look at her because she thinks I'm "Staring holes through her" It pisses her off when I don't yell. "SAY SOMETHING!" when in fact, I've already said the same thing 5 freaking times in a row. My mother has serious Selective Hearing, and she blames it on bad hearing (which in fact isn't true. I've tested this, and she's prooven to have better hearing then I do.) So, Vulkar. While I appreciate the idea of something diffrent, it's completly in vain. I found that yelling back at her acctually makes the arguement end faster  ; And by ranting here, that's my only stress releive.
Since, afterall, the bitch twists the story all the time, and now has gotten my dad to be against me. Don't even TRY to tell me to talk to him, because I've tryed. It pisses HIM off because it's his Wife. ; I'm stuck on this untill I get the money to move out. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Lord Vulkas Mormonus Posts: 648/4540 |
I hate to say it, but it sounds like your over reacting.
Now, try something. When she yells, be silent. Ignore her. Yelling at her isn't going to do anything except for making it so that you hate each other more. When she is mad at you for something she doesn't understand, calmly try to explain it to her, and if you fail, go silent again and do whatever you were doing. Honestly, then I think that this is the only way to handle it, except for hating her for the rest of your life(and yes, that will happen I posses knowledge of such things), and your life won't exactly be as good as it could be. Be the better person, ignore her, try and ask her to give you a chance at what your doing when she gets mad. Also, if you're just silent, and ignore her, it will have a much stronger effect on her than if you yell at someone who has helped raise you, who chose to give birth to you, and many other things that she does and I'm quiet sure you don't notice. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Elara Posts: 2264/9734 |
Heh heh, both of you can move down here and join the ranks of the freaks, lol.
But yeah... the way that you feel around her is the same way I feel around my dad most of the time. It's not a nice feeling, but at the same time it's like you don't even fucking care because they piss you off so damn badly! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Savedox Posts: 388/1567 |
Then we need to talk to Jodi cause she's the one that has all the contacts and stuff... So once we can talk to her.. we can get the office thing worked out and then we will be all set... I can start printing off some business cards at work with the nice index paper stuff so that we can get those started.. Ill also print off a few flyers to give to happeny and to hang in the workroom.. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Kaijin Surohm Posts: 846/1852 |
I can't take this anymore.
All she does is bitch at me. She claims that I'ts me and not her, but she dosn't even realize what the hell she's doing. I know full well I yell at her. I'm not that fuckign dense to not realize when my voice goes past it's normal volume. She dosn't even talk anymore. I don't even say anythign, and she's bringining up the most bullshit ideas ever. She's a non-educated woman who apperently feels like she NEEDS to tell me what to do, when she clearly has told me many, many times that I was smarter then her. What the fuck? I don't say anything. I have my life sorted out the way ~I~ want it. And then she starts throwing out some bullshit of "GET A JOB! YOU DON'T WANT A JOB BECAUSE YOUR LAZY!" Right... thats why I have a few jobs lined up, I'm trying my damndest to get one, and I'm sick of living home. "DON'T YOU DARE TOUCH YOUR MONEY! THIS IS HOW YOUR DIVIDING IT, THIS IS HOW IT'S BEING USED!" Bitch, when I want you to tell me how to spend MY HARD EARNED CASH I'll fucking ask "THAT $5 IS GOING TO THE GAS PILE! DON'T YOU DARE TOUCH IT!" Five fucking dollars, wow. I can barely fill two notices on my tank with five bucks. Thats less then a drive to school and back. "YOUR LAZY ALL YOU DO IT YELL, YOU THINK ITS ME, BUT IT'S YOU!" Thats why ever last one of my friends hate you. They resent the idea of comming up to my house because of YOU, and noone even talks nicely to you since your so fucking stupid. Even my own sister sees how goddamn pissy you are. Mother, you are truely the only person on the planet who can piss me off. I've never wanted to deck someone so badly. If I had a knife the moment you opened your trap, your lips would have been staked closed with a six inch blade. I can't stand you. Infact, chances are, all of my paychecks are probably now going into my savings just so I can get the fuck out of here. "IF YOU DON'T LIKE HOW THIS HOUSE RUNS, THEN GET OUT! I WON'T TAKE HOW YOU TALK TO ME ANYMORE, I DON'T FROM YOUR SISTER, I DON'T FROM YOU. THE MOMENT YOU MOVE OUT, IS WHEN YOU CAN START YELLING, BECAUSE THEN I'LL JUST HANG UP." 1) gee, nice way to work out your fucking problems... "Pacifist" my ass... 2) Thanks for the idea. I'm getting out a.s.a.p 3) Who the fuck said I was going ot call you? All you ever do anymore is reem on my ideas. I brought up an idea of starting a buisness with Geoff, and she just goes off on it and completely destroys the idea. Any good ideas or dreams i have, she magically attacks, and destroys. I can't even talk to her for two fuckign minutes without an arguement. Tell me, if someone is sick, do you want ot be around them, for fear of getting sick? No. you wanna stay away. Phone them up if need be, but keep a safe distance. Any dumbass with two braincells would know this. "DONT YOU DARE GO OVER THERE AND GET SICK BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT A JOB!" Where the fuck did 'Don't want a job' come from? And no shit on seeing my friend. ; I can't stand living here anymore.
Geoff, if you read this, we need to work double time on getting that office space. More money that we can get outa this, the faster we can get the hell out of this fucking STATE. because I don't even want to be in the same goddamn state with this bitch. renewed_soul_rocker |
Posts: 16/30 i totally understanded to about the mom thing. It seems like thats like mine does too just bitch and yell at me about this and that. And now that i'm 18 she been saying that i need to follow that she says or get the hell out but i know she does not mean it. I pay half the bills in the housein e ways. | Genocyber |
Posts: 24/49 quick comment i know how your mom is, but you do realize that i can get you a job at DQ if your willing to work in the back, just talk to me first and i should be able to get it to you...
| have a nice day!!! Evo |
Posts: 113/871 *huggles* Poor Coders.
| I sorry your mummy's all mean to you. At least she's nice to your friends...... sometimes too nice.............. *hugs* You'll get out soon, hun. Savedox |
Posts: 292/1567 Wow just ..... wow.... I feel better about my life right nwo atleast Lol | Banned |
Posts: 1020/-3459 I thought... given the theme of the thread... you might like this Video... lol 5 Megs... I know you're on 56k but it's worth it. lol
| http://thatvideosite.com/view/618.html I'm not sure but I think she may be a liiiiittle worse than your mom... lol
EDIT: *finished watching it* Oh how I feel like this kid sometimes... O_o My dad isn't much better but I'm glad I live with him and not my mom anymore sometimes... I love my mom and all, but I don't enjoy my time with her... (make sense? it should...) Kaijin Surohm |
Posts: 649/1852 Thats what I've been planning on. When you turn 18, Geoff, I plan on splitting an apartment with you.
| The sooner the better Savedox |
Posts: 289/1567 We probobly would if I were 18... Lol
| Then you have Evo also that told me that if anything happens to call her and I can have her extra room. O.o that surprised me a little bit.... but yea I have alot of people who would take me in.... When I turn 18 in april I think that's what's going to happen...... I think it would be fun to have Kai as a room mate or something.... lot's and lot's of game's >.> ROFL Elara |
Posts: 1786/9734 Damn... well, with that much money you could afford to move out and replace your stuff. Not saying to do it or anything like that, but it's something to keep in mind.
| You know, you and Drizzt could always combine forces and rent an apartment or something. Roomates are awesome when it comes to splitting rent. Kaijin Surohm |
Posts: 636/1852 I would, but we'd end up losing everything in the house, and I'd be kicked out.
| Since I AM 18 right now (sucks not having a job to run to right now) I'd just get kicked out, or mother would sell everything I own when I leave for a moment. And why I say we'd lose everythign in the house: If the bitch ever DARE follow through her threats of "I'll sell off everything you own!" I'd proceed to sell off all her bullshit jewlary. I know every hiding spot in this house. I know every spot that mother hides her crap. She touches MY valuables, I'll touches hers. And I can get $80,000 for just half of her rings. The bitch is loaded with jewels... 01001000 |
Posts: 269/944 At times like reading posts like this, I am very happy that I do not have parents like so.
| Its really unfortunate you have to go through that bullshit...and a quick thought came to mind. Play mean creul pranks on her. Piss in her coffee, put something incredibly sour or spicy in her food. Replace perfum with WD 40 or mortor oil. Put karamel syrup in her socks and shoes. Tape dead spiders to a telephone receiver and let her kiss death. I would totally do what I just said if my Mom was a monster like yours. Savedox |
Posts: 288/1567 I would say *huggles* but I know that that probobly wouldnt end well.. | 
But yea I can see where your comeing from....... I mean I've been to your house before and I know your mom.....You need to get that job so you can move out...and I dont know have a life that isnt ruined every day by your mom like my life right now.......( more info on that: LJ= gtmaddox ) and you know how it is so yea....WhiteRose |
Posts: 531/1461 Hmmm, why does this sound so familiar...oh yeah, my mother does the same thing to me, almost identicle, ask Elara. But I know how hard it is to live with someone like that and my sympathies to you on that. You have every right to rant to your hearts content and if you ever feel like ranting some more, feel free to IM, I can probably relate and give you a similar situation that happened to me. Don't know what to tell you to do, since I know talking back at her will make things worse, as will ignoring things. Hate saying this (especially since I'm in the same boat) but you can't do much, but put up with it till your out on you own. *huggles* Again, feel free to talk with me whenever. | Elara |
Posts: 1776/9734 *huggles*
| I personally say tell her to fuck off, but I know that won't go over well. Sounds a lot like my parents whenever I know what I am doing and they don't want to believe me... but, like, worse... I am so sorry Cody. I'm tempted to know what she's saying about those two as well... I'll drive up there and pop her in the fucking jaw if she deserves it (and it sounds like she does). 
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