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| True Flight Posts: 3015/5245 |
Sounds a bit like my grandmother in crestview and mom's tension. Those that's why they are separated.
I feel for you I really do. I would just go with gut feeling. Don't bother bringing your mother into it. Because if you do, that's when everything goes under kay? Don't bring anymore people into it. Another thing for you is that YOU need to keep YOUR cool. When your father has lost all patience he'll probably need you to be there for him. =_= God only knows how many times I was there for my dad when my mom and him had a fall out over stupid stuff as well. Do keep that in mind okay? |
| The Accidental Protege Posts: 2364/2641 |
My grandmother is a self-centered, ruthless person. She has used us in order to get a free place to live, and she's masqueraded it so that she acts nice and gentle. I called her out today, when she wanted me to turn my back to my own father. He and my Nana have had ridiculous tension, while my mother wants everyone to be happy, since it is HER mother.
My Nana wants her stuff in the basement under her addition (which she has claimed as "hers"), her stuff which she doesn't use. She wanted shelves on the side wall of the basement, which was impossible because of how the beams were. My father built them in the back, grandma wasn't happy. In a last ditch attempt to please her, he put up some very strong shelves on the side, which was an all day job, and she still didn't like it because it wasn't on the right side of the basement. My father explained to her how we couldn't put shelves there because of the radiator and exposed pipes, but she didn't care, and protested that this was hers, hated the fact that some of our stuff was in there since we have no room anywhere else, and threw a hissy fit all over the place. My dad had enough. He called her "fucking insane" and a self-centered, undermining person who thinks only of herself. My window was open at the time. I heard the whole fight. Later, when she confronted me about how awful my father is, I called her out, and told her how I heard the whole fight, and said that her story and my dad's story didn't match up. She then proceeded to tell me he was never a good father. I've had it. It's a shame, really; when was in my preteens and earlier, my Nana and Pop-pop (gods rest his soul) were my heroes. They could do no wrong. Now, she's trying to turn me against my own father by lying to me. What the fuck do I do? |
