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| Santhe Ubrikkian Posts: 1/1 |
Just because you cut yourself off doesn't mean the end of the world. You see that is how life works you live and learn. sometimes there comes a time when people interfere or drift apart from your life and sometimes you need to find other things to allow yourself to grow past you misgivings. You see the only that life can do for us is teach.
It will give us the strength to make the friendships that last forever or teach us that sometimes we need to let go. If we can learn how to decipher the code of life what need for life would there be? The only constant in life is that things change and humans were meant to adapt to every environment and every situation. Seek comfort in knowing that you made the right decision for the situation at hand either for you or your friend and hope that they live a great life with or without you because that is what true friends do. |
| Elara Posts: 4754/9736 |
Well, hopefully it will work itself out over time. Hell, you and Nagis finally made peace so anything is possible.
Just be careful in the future to not get your foot in your mouth and try to avoid the swirly chaos of drama. |
| True Flight Posts: 3231/5245 |
Originally posted by Elara Let's just say that it's been taken care of at the moment. >.> Just some of the things I wind up getting myself caught up in. I had to completely cut myself off from a friend of mine from basic training. |
| Katana Posts: 2384/3649 |
Haven't been good with advice in a LOOONG time (IF I ever was...) and since the situation has been generalized, all I'm going to say is pull your head outta your butt if you have to. I just did...I knew I had to for the longest time, and every time I thought I did, and things got better, it turned out they were only the surface of things, and deep down, things were still wrong. I think I got it right now, because it seems like things are getting better from the under the surface on up.
I really hope I'm making sense here, but...and correct me if I am misjudging something here, by all means...but it seems like things are up and down quite often with you, and I think I can identify with that...and if it is true, then yeah...the best advice I can give you is to sit down, take a deep breath, and think. Try your best to map out some sort of plan, might not go through, but it's a start. Xeo, for example, from what I can tell, has had some issues, and he's doing something about it now, with the therapy. Just try your best to come up with some options for yourself to make things better, then, once you have a starting ground, snag those that are close to you, swallow your pride, and ask for help. Then LET them help...something I sure as hell have difficulty with. 
Otherwise...as long as you do your very best to be the best that you can be, and to do the best that you can...you're only human. Not much more can be asked of you. So, if things are bad, it's okay. As long as you try, things can get better...and if they get bad again, which they will, that's okay too...it happens, we just have to adapt and pick ourselves up again...I don't know many older people who can't say they've had to do that with themselves many times, so...it's alright. |
| Elara Posts: 4738/9736 |
Tread softly if you can, but really it's best to just get the situation open to discussion with those involved so that you can present your point of view and resolve the issue. |
| Xeoman Posts: 6990/11757 |
If it makes you feel any better I start therapy tonight. |
| True Flight Posts: 3228/5245 |
I know people say generalization is bad but this really needs to be generalized.
I made another uncomfy bed for myself. I'm not going to go into the details about it. I just feel very weird because I have to continue to walk on egg shells around some people. I can't really hide things all too well. I know that everyone who's been around me both online and off line know if I hide something for too long it festers and I just want to die. =_= I've been playing my piano more often now. It's been one good thing after the next in my life. Perhaps it was just too many good things because this weekend wound up with me fucking things up for myself again. I'm wondering if anybody else has felt like this before. Like thy just made a huge bed out of concrete and sand paper sheets with pillows full of broken glass. Every moment the bed starts to heat up. |
