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| True Flight Posts: 4208/5245 |
I did send her a birthday message and told her to enjoy her presents. She on the other hand refused them from my grands and told them that they want me to give it to them in person. I'm like... I would've BUT YOU SKIPPED OUT TOWN WHILE I WAS ON R AND R. How evil is that? She fucking skipped out of town KNOWING I WAS COMING BACK for a couple of days.
My sis she is spazzing out because she doesn't want me talking to my biological father. She says that it will really hurt her if she finds out that I am speaking to her. It's just a bunch of bullshit claims about how he abused her, hit her, and what not. He never lifted a finger. I'm thinking back and my sis and bro were really happy to have me back home. They even old me that they wanted to see me happy too. It's just... My sis wants nothing to do with the fact that I want to go to PCC and my sis wants me to have nothing to do with that college too. I'm tottally with you on the it's my life thing. So don't worry about that. At least Sis used her common sense. She said that I would've been like fuck you guys Eric and I are going to Germany and I'm not going to see you all til the end of deployment. |
| Elara Posts: 5889/9736 |
Ok... so you're mom is bitchy that you missed her birthday and she is holding a grudge that further drives you away? Nothing much to do about that other than wait her out and enjoy life in the meantime. The question I have is how did your father get such a bad reputation with the rest of your family?
And I was a bit confused on the wording... who doesn't know what about the wedding? As for the sister thing... yeah, spazzy. Did she even give a reason? Is she upset by the notion of you going to that school because it is far away, because of religious affiliation, some bad reputation? Or is it just her bossing you around because she thinks she can? That is something you should find out. I think that it is good that you are better about who to shut out of your life and why, but I would not say that you have absolutely nothing in common with your mother just like your sister probably does have something in common with your dad. It could be something minute, like a non-verbal quirk such hand movements. While you may be pissed at your mother for acting...well...childish, it is no reason to disavow all connection to her. We are all a product of both parents and the environment that we were raised in, even if we do not like to admit it. I would say that, given the realization of how much you dislike the actions of your mother and sister that taking a break from them is a good thing. Your mom doesn't want to talk to you, so be it. Your sister is trying to boss you around, ignore her and leave her alone. |
| True Flight Posts: 4204/5245 |
So I have been going through a bit of a change lately. I have began to notice that there are things to my mom and sister that are things I do not approve of lately. I guess it's sort of like the fact that I'm slowly turning into my biological father and I'm beginning to see things like he did in the past.
It's been about a year since the day my husband asked me to take his hand in marriage. This is the second birthday of my mother's I have missed. The first time was because of the fact I had to make sure my pregnancy test results were false. Since that day, my mother has been... well... very unhappy with me. It just doesn't matter what I do, she just doesn't like me anymore. She's been like this for about a good year now. So I'm just going to sit here and be disliked again... sigh. Anyway I had gone to my biological father's home during R and R and we stayed at a beach house the last few days of it. We had our beach wedding and everything was done wonderfully. Sadly, the parents or even my side of the family is not supposed to know. We don't talk much about my father or anything of the sorts. Everyone is stuck on the thought that he's such a bad guy that he actually abused us. He didn't. He was always working his heart out to make sure that we lived comfortably. The child support was coming in just fine. It just doesn't make sense at all. I found out that Pensacola Christian College is calling for me and my sis goes crazy and says that I can't go. Who's she to say that.... So here's what I found out. A. I don't shut people out like my sister and my mother. B. If I do, I'm very smart about it and shut out those who needed to be shut out. C. My father's genes ran out after me and my sister is completely my mother. So I'm nothing like my mom. I talk and act just like my biological father and that's all there is to it. There's nothing wrong with me. It's my mother she seems to be shutting me out. I have heard that she has been talking to me. There's nothing I can do. |
