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| caxama Posts: 10/78 |
I'd have to agree, sex without loving the person you're with is meaningless.
I'm not a virgen, but I don't regret it, I love the guy I'm with more than anything, so in my mind it was the right decision. Everyone has their own reasons for either having sex or not having sex. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Jin Posts: 165/546 |
Well, I'm a virgin.
I absolutely 100% REFUSE to have sex with someone I don't love.. Because that's what sex means to me. A physical act of love. That's not to say I don't masturbate.. but that's a different issue entirely. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Katana Posts: 135/3649 |
**looks over at Desroth and blinks**
**is still blinking repeatedly** ....**blink blink blink**... Well it's a good thing that you're waiting for the one you love and that your concernced about whether she's ready or not. I think I've stated this before, but I am waiting until I'm married. Not saying "Oh, it goes against my religion"...fuck that shit. I'm just a family person. I know there's always a risk unless I do something that'll ruin my reproductive system and I'll never be able to have kids when I'm ready for them. So scratch that idea. It would break my heart to have to give my child up for adoption in case of the event of pregnancy, because God knows I can't afford to have a kid now. And abortion is DEFINITELY out of the question. Again, not for religious reasons...I just really love kids. It's because I love kids so much that I want to do things right. I want to make sure that getting pregnant is never a "worry". I want to be 100% sure that I can have and raise a kid and be mommy, and not fuck up like my parents did. But those are just my opinions. Do I think sex is evil? No. Well...if peole are irresponsible about it yes...but then again, that's the person's screw up. Do I go around chastizing people for having sex? No. Sex is a wonderful thing and different people are ready at different times. Those are merely my opinions. I'll never do something to criticize another for their opinions and I sure as hell don't want to be criticized for my own.  Jedi Master Desroth |
Posts: 32/569 hey Leon, lemme guess, you have Sickle Cell Enemia? i think that is the only blood abnormality that makes you almost unable to become sick. at any rate, im a virgin, although i did have the chance to get face to "lips" with a girl (i was 11) . I wanna actually have sex with someone i love, like my girlfreind, but only when she is ready and wants to (although i do believe she does based on the way she is acting as of late, but im not gonna push her). although i can say i wouldnt turn it down if a girl wanted to (as long as i knew her). being a virgin is awsome, you can have a lot of freinds that are hot girls and they dont have to worry about you trying to get some. If you really cant wait, then there are a few things you can do.
| Boys: Right hand, lotion, your pocket buddy, porno... NOUGH SAID Girls: ... from porno i seen, i would say one of those pink ball vibrators or ur fingers... Jeez, why cant people wait??? on a side note: is it just me, or have just about half the people who posted here been raped or had sex without wanting to? Stitch |
Posts: 198/2785 I'm not a virgin, except to heterosexual sex, and that is going to stay that way. Unless I'm really really really really drunk. And, then, I don't want to remember or see pictures.
| I'm an anal virgin, but we're leaving it at that. You can "eww" and "blah" or whatever, I've said it, and its done. My lead agent is still a virgin, and she's 24. Damion Jezebeth |
Posts: 19/27 i think what it all comes down to is your definition of losing virginity. if its intercourse, actual penetration, then im still a virgin. but if its just oral sex them im not. i ansered no on the poll becuase as far as im conerned im still a virgin until i stick my dick inside something.
| waiting to have sex after marriage? fuck that. im in my junior year of highschool, its my goal to get laid before i graduate. mentally im stronger than most, i know i am. plus, being the guy that i truely am i have the ability to have sex without any emotional involvement, as far as im concerned its just something you do for fun and to have kids of course (that will come after im married) Banned |
Posts: 151/-3459 Originally posted by Leon Luuuuuuuuucky...... Does that include AIDS??    Evo |
Posts: 5/871 Hmm,nope. Not a chance. I'm a nympho... I'mengaged, though, so it's ok. |
First time wasn't by choice though... Otherwise I would stillbe, methinks. Leon D. Sagara |
Posts: 36/859 Sorry Guys, I been DE-Virginized since I was 17 ((4 years ago)) And I ll prolly do it again before I get married ((Sorry Benja, I shouldnt have left you that night))
| As far as STD's go, I am emune to all of them. I have a 5% chance of getting any and thats all ((Blood abnormality)) So yea, all I have to worry about is a KID which will be handles personally by me if she ever DOES get pregnant Truth/Serum |
Posts: 13/185 Ah. Thank you for the corrections.
| So it's a 16 day period where your chances run really high. And can ovulate during periods eh? That's a new one on me, but okay. Better safe than sorry yah? Elara |
Posts: 454/9736 Actually they do not remove the eggs, they tie the fallopian tubes shut. That is why it's nicknamed "getting the tubes tied".
| Anywho, from what I remember learning in health as well as biology: Sperm survives for up to 7 days Egg can live I thought only 1 or 2 days, but err on side of cautiousness and say 5 A girl is capable of ovulating during her period, or at any time, so do not take chances. Condoms are about 95% effective as a contraceptive* Birth control pills are 99% effective* Spermicidal foam is about 80% effective* * the reason that these methods are not 100% effetive is because of human error and not using it right. However, use them in combination (even just condom and pill) and you have 100% effective contraception) Then of course there is also the shot instead of the pill for women, which works exactly like the pill, but removes the human error factor. There are two types, one you get every 3 months, and one (Lunell) that you get once a month. From the data I've seen, I recommend the monthly one. And the Sexpert has returned, lol. Jarukoth |
Posts: 4/20 Still a virgin.
| 1) I'm saving myself for marriage. 2) My religious principles forbid sex outside of marriage. 3) If I get a girl pregnant, we're both screwed. (Literally and figuratively) Xeios |
Posts: 221/2954 Originally posted by Truth/Serum Its not that bad. most people don't do it to prevent children when they are young, they usually are older and don't want anymore kids. IE They have had some already.... Truth/Serum |
Posts: 10/185 Not just to be an ass, but sterilizations and contraceptives somewhat different things.
| One is prevention of with no permanent effects. Where as sterilization means to deprive of the power of reproducing. Aka - Permanent. And the fact is, just about everyone knows about sterilization. It's often not something anyone in their right mind would want to do. Being as it's permanent and all  Xeios |
Posts: 215/2954 Well, when I said no 100% contraceptive I kinda meant that there was no 100% contraceptive without reprocussions later. Like I'm sure that most women would like to have kids some time. | X Marks the Spot |
Posts: 158/693 Originally posted by Xeios Seeing all of you saying there is no 100% contraception, I had to throw this out there... There actually is a 100% contraceptive and, while many people are unaware of it, it is actually the leading form of contraception in American women... And the contraceptive I am talking about is permanent sterilization... That would be a surgery where the doctor would remove all of the woman's eggs in her ovaries... So, in effect that makes it impossible to become pregnant... I'm suprised nobody else here knew that. Benja |
Posts: 53/551 Am I a virgin? Meh, figure it out really. It doesnt matter if you are or not, its you that makes the difference | Boondock Saint |
Posts: 21/68 yeah i didnt really mean that they are 100% rav, i was just meaning its better to have some protection than none at all if your going to do it. Not having sex is the only 100% way, unless if your like Mary and were boned by God I guess you could say. | Pockets |
Posts: 165/838 most condoms do protect fairly well against STD's unless they happen to tear or break during intercourse. Not 100% but pretty well. | Katana |
Posts: 53/3649 Condoms aren't 100% and they DON'T protect against STD's...
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