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| Jin Posts: 84/546 |
If anything he's just acting immature. Which is very common of college students..
It doesn't mean he's gay or has incest feelings towards you. |
| Rauni Posts: 60/1351 |
... Laughing? He put on a stupid face that goes like "Hey, I am here to see you, NAKED!"
And my older brother haven't help me at all... Look, I know he is in college and I am basically younger than him. I don't look up to him most of the time, and he is starting to acting like he need to look up for me. Hey, I can protect myself too, and I don't like when people try to "act" like me, even through in a very small way. And no, he does like Yu-Gi-Oh. He even make a goofy jackass out of himself by doing that. "I summon The Winged Dragon of Ra." My reaction: That dumb-look on my face. It is enough for my own brother to cause enough trouble for me (which is still the same.) I am not used to his new behavior. He sneezed all over the bathroom shower, and leave it there. He left me to clean up the house, and even push me out of what I was doing. I am WAY too different from my own brother. He is socialable, I am not. He know when to give a joke, but it is enough for me to know that he alway take the damn jokes so seriously. He want me to have the hairs like him, I like it longer. I do not grab people's ass without their damn premission, he does. He want to play his game, and I alway has to understand his feeling. He act as he know everything, while I prefer that the person "who know everything" should as least learn from other people. He doesn't understand on how much I like to draw, and told me to take up Football. I am not a football addict and not a sport addict person! In fact, we are completely opposite against each other. I don't care what you said, Boondock Saint... but if HE think I would even need his help, just you wait as the night come in. I will beat him and show that I can take care of myself. (And how will I beat him? Simple, I will attack him in his sleep. You got to be perpare for anything. If he can't protect himself, how WILL he protect me?) |
| Xeoman Posts: 531/11757 |
Yeah, it doesn't seem like too much of a big deal, I mean ... does he laugh about it? He could just be joking around with you.
That or, just simply tell him to "Leave you alone" or something. |
| Boondock Saint Posts: 16/68 |
Its nothing to worry about Beo, your brother is not gay.
He's in college and had just came home and he see's how much you've changed since the last time he's seen you and its finally starting to get to him that he doesnt know you like he should and that he is the one whose suppose to take care of you no matter what. He is just goofing with you all of the ass grabbing and folllowing you around, i mess with my little brother all the time. He relizes that there is some part of you that looks up to him even if you dont see it. All little brothers copy their older brothers in some way or another. Him dancing to the naruto theme is just that he wanted to look goofy or stupid to try to get a laugh out of you by looking like a jackass. Him watching yu-gi-oh with you is just so he can see what it is exactly that you like even if he doesnt like it, and the whole ass grabbing situation is just that he knows it make you uncomfortable but hes doing it in a joking way because it makes you uncomfortable that just what us older brothers do. point is, is that your totally overreacting. I mean you may think he doesnt care or that he's sick but thats just a little selfish because he's the one that has to protect you no matter what, it the purpose of the big brother. |
| Rauni Posts: 55/1351 |
Elara, I am not really overreacting. I did saw him do a pretty quick male-prevent stuff. Beside, he know I am a anti-social nature type of person.
Plus, my mom care about my brother more than me... You see, I am not "on the ground rule" with my mother's family because my brother and my mother want so many stuff out of me, they NEVER would understand my feeling at all. Not to mention that my brother would really want to hunt me seriously. He make alot of excuses and enough to consider hurting my feeling as well. If I ask him for help on Event 50 for Super Smash Bros. Melee, he make up a excuse to not to play with me. If I ask him to play with me with SSBM, and he want to play Halo 2 instead. He would never understand my feeling most of the time. And if they caught with me with this... I hope they would understand better... But only my dad and I get along better. |
| Elara Posts: 314/9736 |
I think you're overreacting really... I mean, he's just goofing around. My friends and I goof off more than that. If it really bothers you that much, just tell him to back off and leave you alone... if he continues explain to him your anti-social nature. Last resort tell your mom. Of course, he may just keep doing it to annoy you, for that is the way of all older brothers. |
| Déesse Posts: 248/958 |
Then you seriously need to talk to him, even if he doesn't listen at least you have approached him about it, then if he continues you can take further action, maybe getting a restraining order or something  |
| Rauni Posts: 50/1351 |
That's the main problem. He doesn't alway respect my feeling and does what he think. Not only that, he is older and... well.. just laugh at this, smaller than me. Only because I beat him by a few centimeter or as least 1 inch.
And by the way, Deesse, it was morning so I doubt he would drink 5 red soda, and he wake up at 10:50. I doubt he could drink as least 5 red soda, in 10 minutes. It is that he would not even understand me at all. He would only cared about himself and well... I need as least someone to save my ass just before he keep doing it over again. Either that, or I could need a weapon too. For self-defense,  .
Either he is completely sick, or just behavior-screwed, I don't like like this person my brother is becoming... I honestly doesn't hope he would end up doing sick stuff through. |
| Xeios Posts: 192/2954 |
This is a toughy...Uhm, you could do as the others say i guess. But you could also confront him about it. Just say, "look, I think you keep looking at me wierdly, and you are touching me when I don't want to be touched. Is this true?"
And depending on what he says, go for your first reaction.... |
| Déesse Posts: 243/958 |
Just tell him not to touch you like that, it's an invasion of privacy. But that is kind of ... eww, I mean your both brothers, but hopefully he was only mucking around and that he had too much red soda that day or something
If he continues then just tell him not to do that, that you feel uncomfortable. |
| Jin Posts: 83/546 |
I think you should get an award for reading too far into playful kidding around.
Me and my brother goof around like that all the time. Not to mention he sometimes follows me around. |
| Rauni Posts: 49/1351 |
Well, when my brother came home for a week, everything was going alright. Until Saturday...
While watching Yu-Gi-Oh, my brother walk into my bedroom, watching Yu-Gi-Oh with me (and without any of my own premiss as well) and basically take up the entire bedspace. Then I was forced to watch the rest in the living room, where I also had some snacks too. And what happen? My brother came into the living room, watching the same thing with me while my t.v. is playing Yu-Gi-Oh. I try walking back into my room, and guess what? He kept following me! He is a huge major disturbance toward to my nature. I mean... He is a college student for crying out loud. So when I turn off Yu-Gi-Oh, and went to the PC in the front room, my brother follow me there. So I was planning to just sit there and watch the clock. But then I decide to play Haruka something (A Naruto song). My brother started to dance and this is the part where it get too weird. After 45 seconds, he went over to me, and rub his hand on my bathrobes. My reaction was that my brother may be gay... Because I don't even feel like he was being himself and being normal. And when my mother came home and I told my brother not to do that again, my mother bitched about it and said not to bring it up again... Right now... I am not really going through those 5 stages. Even since my brother may have become "gay", I felt to be more alone because there would be no one for me to rely on... (except you, Leon.) But, honestly, why does my brother have to be sick every now and then? How do I know my brother is sick? - After taking a shower, I saw him quickly open the door, and look at me with the towel on. He then quickly close the door. - He NEVER knock when I am trying to dress. Actually, both my brother AND my mother alway open the door without letting me know who's there. And even if they did, they knock then open the door without any second to spare. - My brother hand-rubbing all over my bathrobes. He just made me sick. - He alway grab my ass. He kept doing it, and get this! He did it in the store too! I swear to god that my brother alway want to touch my ass. That is more sicker too! I don't know what to do with him... I am just never felt more... betrayed in my life... As some of you may know and most of you may not know, I am a anti-social guy, and really rely on myself... And I tend to kept most secret from everyone but I just want to point this out. If I show any sign of changes, I will know it myself. But right now, I don't want the horrible situation coming up again because I honestly do not know what to do with my brother. I can't avoid him alway. So please... just understand my feeling for once. Because of this unusual events, I may decline in socialable and may stay away from people such as my brother and probably, my friends as well. Ugh, this feel horrible. |
