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| Jin Posts: 197/546 |
Thanks guys.. The comforting words have helped more than you can possibly imagine.
I guess the thing that's made me mad is he was so young. And his death was pretty much self inflicted by years of pain medication abuse. He shared my name, So it's hard for my grandma to call me by name.. that's always hard to deal with. |
| Déesse Posts: 436/958 |
I still get that happening to me about my mum, it will suddenly hit me that she has passed and it will put me off guard. It usually is a single thought and suddenly bam!
But never try and hide the feelings, letting it out helps you, keeping it all in, the emotions, will only make things worse later on  Trust me I know. |
| Elara Posts: 653/9736 |
It took me 5 years to reach that stage for my grandmother... I was 8 when she died, and it was not very pretty when it finally sunk in. I cried for like 2 hours straight... my parents didn't notice though.
All I can really say is this: *huggles* He lives in your memories always, just remember that. |
| Katana Posts: 177/3649 |
**huggles** It's gonna be okay...I know what that's like...you get the overwhelming feeling of everything hitting you...then that last realization kicks in..."They're dead..." That was always the part where I would actually loose it and cry. It's like everything else would be able to be resolved somehow...but then the whole death part starts sinking in...
My answer? Time. This past April 2 has marked 5 years since my step-dad...I'm still devastated over the loss...the feeling will never go away I don't think...but it gets better, more bearable to say the least... One thing that's helped me was that...when it would just feel unbearable...usually I'd get overwhelmed when my dad would get "scary" and I'd sit back and realize that he got to stay, but my step-dad, the one who truly loved and took care of me..he's gone. I can't tell you how many times I've just broke down and cried in my best friend's arms or something. Now I'll admit to tears, but I don't like crying in front of people...but it helped when I didn't know what else to do. So...I'm really sorry for not being able to dish out better advice other than time and crying, but...that's what truly worked for me, and I think you should give them a chance. Worst that could happen is that they end up not working. |
| Belial Posts: 43/647 |
Yeah, same thing happened to me when my dad died. |
| Evo Posts: 56/871 |
*hugs* Never been in the situation you're in, but I know what it's like to have realization of something hit you long after it's passed.
I'm so sorry that happened, but hopefully you have some good memories to go off of and remember him for the good person he was to you. Just hold onto him. |
| Jin Posts: 191/546 |
Heh.. It didn't hit me how much I miss my uncle untill this morning..
I had a dream with him in it and I woke up and realized.. "he's dead.. and ill never see him again." At the funeral I was very calm and collected about everything because it really didn't hit me.. It's been a month or so and it's just now a reality to me.. :\ *sigh* |
