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Darkness
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Originally posted by Reno
True love is not such a rediculous concept, it's very possible for two people to love each other more than life itself, and that's why I believe in it. But, I'm well aware that sometimes lust and affection can be presented as True Love in the minds of many, which is why there are so many problems with divorces and such.
Man you pretty much just presented what I think about it...
(in a more intelligent way too)...*SOB*
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Reno
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True love is not such a rediculous concept, it's very possible for two people to love each other more than life itself, and that's why I believe in it. But, I'm well aware that sometimes lust and affection can be presented as True Love in the minds of many, which is why there are so many problems with divorces and such. |
Broken Dreams
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dangit  thats really cool but sad at the same time. |
Savedox
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i found this online a few days ago and i think its pretty good describing true love:
WHEN YOU ARE TOGETHER WITH THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE, YOU PRETEND TO IGNORE THAT PERSON. BUT WHEN THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE IS NOT AROUND, YOU MIGHT LOOK AROUND TO FIND THEM. AT THAT MOMENT,
YOU ARE IN LOVE
ALTHOUGH THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE WHO ALwAYS MAKES YOU LAUGH, YOUR EYES AND ATTENTION MIGHT GO ONLY TO THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE. THEN YOU ARE IN LOVE.
ALTHOUGH THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE WAS SUPPOSE TO
HAVE CALLED YOU LONG BACK, TO LET YOU KNOW OF
THEIR SAFE ARRIVAL, YOUR PHONE IS QUIET. YOU ARE
DESPERATELY WAITING FOR THAT CALL AT THAT MOMENT
YOU ARE IN LOVE
IF YOU ARE MUCH MORE EXCITED FOR ONE SHORT E-MAIL FROM THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE THAN OTHER MANY LONG E-MAILS, YOU ARE IN LOVE
WHEN YOU FIND YOURSELF AS ONE WHO CANNOT ERASE
ALL THE MESSAGES IN YOUR ANSWERING MACHINE
BECAUSE OF THAT ONE MESSAgE FROM THAT SPECIAL
SOMEONE, YOU ARE IN LOVE
WHEN YOU GET A COUPLE OF FREE MOVIE TICKETS, YOU WOULD NOT HESITATE TO THINK OF THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE. THEN, YOU ARE IN LOVE
WHILE YOU ARE READING THIS PAGE, IF SOMEONE
APPERARS IN YOUR MIND, THEN YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THAT PERSON |
Banned
Posts: 450/-3459 |
Not bumping at all *same month* and thank you for the comment...
I think that it's very very rare to find true love in your teenage years... and even if you do find it, you'll prolly wind up not recognizing it, lettin' your hormones get the best of you, and making a really dumb mistake... It IS possible to find true love, but it's rare... and even rarer that you don't mess it up...  |
BrokenShards
Posts: 4/12 |
Hmm...this might be "bumping" i think thats what its called but I wanted to add something here...
I think it is extremely rare to find true love in the teenage years. I used to look for it all the time. I thought I found it and it just got me hurt badly. Broke my heart too. So, I guess that every now and then two people run into eachother that just can't get enough of eachother and fall in love while still in high school. Personally, its my opinion now that its wrong to get serious before your senior year, if even then. Having a serious relationship in high school is just wrong I think. Because when you have one, you start making promises you may not be able to keep.
Now yes, I have a girl friend. Yes, I care about her. But NO i don't love her. Love is a very strong word. We're keeping our relationship very casual, but we let eachother know we care and that we don't think we could find a better person if we tried. But thats all. Getting more serious than that is wrong. People always get hurt from that.
So yes, true love can be found, and maybe a lot of people find it, but because they try to move too fast, it doesn't work out. But I seriously doubt that many people have or will find true love until after high school. |
Darkness
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I think there IS a such thing as true love, and also think that it happens a lot more than we think in the teenage years, but remember everyone! Love CAN be one sided...
For example one person loves the other not for sex (yes no interest in it) but for who they are and truely caresand the other just want to use the the person for personal gain...I seem to always be the person who cares, and is let down... |
Broken Dreams
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I agree too ! thats a good quote. I am young and I'm pretty sure things will go well for my in the future.
First love and only is hard to get over o.o but I know I will get over it.... |
Elara
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Originally posted by AngelBayB49
"Love you get over in 2 weeks. Big love you get over in 2 months. But great love changes your life."
I don't remember which movie that is from, but I actually have to agree with it, and it does change your life. |
AngelBayB49
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I think it IS possible for teenagers to find true love. My Aunt Liz & Uncle Babe met when they were 10 I believe. And they were together until they both passed away in 1997. There are a few instances of that in my family. My Aunt Laly & Uncle Mike got married when she had just turned 18. It's not impossible, but these days it's rare.
I used to believe there was "true love". Now I base love on one of my really sappy movies:
"Love you get over in 2 weeks. Big love you get over in 2 months. But great love changes your life." |
Broken Dreams
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Originally posted by True Flight
 Woah... funny how things fall together in threads like these. Hey BD ever feel the need IM me.. And yeah...  I've had a couple of "situations" with threads like these.  Woah....
edit: sometimes Love's not what you see I think we all learned it here... Uh... bad thing to say. But yeah... strange how they all fall into place.
actually  I'm quite fine thank you though. Just shows some peoples true color right? good thing I didn't do anything anyway I'm just actually really happy I made this thread now. I accept for how things are life goes on right? ;] There is always going to be some one better,nicer out there not some fake relationship with a liar and a cheater I admit I know what love is but I do not know what true love is, I am one of those corny teenagers that wished that there was more I thought I wasn't but I was proved wrong LoL |
Azen Dalin
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I disagree. Teenagers can find true love (I have, and trust me...its not something like what Bloody Tears had) its just that often teenagers mix up what they think is "love" with "lust". Its not a physical attraction, and sometimes its not even a mental attraction. What love is, is a sense of completion, you have found a person that completes you and you are happy with it.
Its not an odd feeling you get in your stomach, its not when you get dizzy thinking about them, and its certainly not obsessing or being jealous of that person. Love is being willing to except whatever it is that happened in their life, and love them still. It's knowing that no matter what, you'll be together, but something that can show you are in love is when the other person is SO connected to you that you can finish each other's thoughts.
One thing is for certain, it is like they say. Once you find true love, you'll know it. And much like what Jin said, it is very difficult to explain. I could sit here for hours trying to explain what love is, and only end up making your head spin. I guess what I'm trying to say is, love isn't a feeling or emotion like people say, its something that happens to you. |
Bitmap
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Ugh, im just not going to come up with a reasionable reply for whats going down right now, I guess this needs to be Closed now before things get WWAAAYY out of hand....for the sake of Uzu, and Broken Dreams |
True Flight
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Woah... funny how things fall together in threads like these. Hey BD ever feel the need IM me.. And yeah... I've had a couple of "situations" with threads like these. Woah....
edit: sometimes Love's not what you see I think we all learned it here... Uh... bad thing to say. But yeah... strange how they all fall into place. |
Jin
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Well to folllow up on Makura's post..
It's without a doubt in my mind the love we share in true and pure.
Love is just so hard to explain, It's as if I never knew what it was to be alive until she came into my life.
The day I met her, Was the first day of the rest of my life. |
Broken Dreams
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Originally posted by Bloody Tears
Aww... Thats so sweet. I dont think it's to soon. I'm in love with Torin and i couldnt be any happier. Except for now hes gone for the summer and it sucks cause i'm all alone waiting for him to come back. But anywho no its not too soon. It doesnt matter what age you are. You can find true love at any age.
funny how torin made me think that we were inlove together this whole time till I saw this post.
UZU I hope your happy you liar. Im sooo not coming to see you and you can forget about coming to anime expo with me. |
Van Rhanell
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It's possible, sometimes, when you know what loveis and what lust is. Girls seem to exhibit true love much more than guys, who mostly just seem to have them so they'll be higher in popularity. Most teens in general don't have enough personality anymore to generate real feelings.I'm good friends with a girl right now, and just want a nice relationship with her. |
Makura
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I think it's possible. My opinion is a bit biased because I claim to be in true love. Really I won't know for sure that it's true love until, A: we break up or B: one of us dies. You don't really know that it's true love when you're in it. Jin and I are both in our teens but when holding a decent conversation with us you'd never guess it. That could be a factor too. So, yeah I hope it's possible. |
Jin
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I think it's possible, but rare.
Most teenagers are too immature to know the true meaning of love much less be able to handle the challenges that come up when you're in love. |
Elara
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It is very rare to find true love in your teenage years. Often you think that it is true love, but it turns out to be infatuation or something... hell, regular love is hard to find as a teenager!
That is a very sweet story about your great grandparents though. I wish that more people could find love like that. |
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