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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"          Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1374 days |
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Right, so...welcome back to "Emo Time!" With yoooourrrrrr host with the most...meee!
Decided to drop out of school...well, take a year, maybe two off...why? Because I have a gameplan. 1) pay off all loans that have interest included with them. (Which means before the interest, I only owe 2 thousand bucks. By the time I get there, I'll prolly be only a few hundred more than that...not that I'm made of money, but for the whole college loan dealie, I'm doing pretty damned good.) I have a few subsidized loans, but I already made my phone calls and had them deferred. Just cuz I'm taking time off, doesn't mean I'm giving up. I just wanna get the interest loan outta the way because...well...it's got interest... 2) get a car. 3) move the fuck out. Two and three are interchangeable. Whichever can happen first. (Being in a big city like I am, public transportation is VERY easy to come by. It's just that if I could physically take less time to get to work, I could work more hours.) But yeah....I'm not going back to school until I've accomplished these things. Why? Because my house is TOO small, and the family AND their problems are getting TOO big. Yuppers kiddies, my family continues to reproduce. First, my mom is pregnant...which, not gonna lie, I'm actually excited about. Second, my younger sister is pregnant with baby number 2. She's due in January or December, and her first kid will be 3 in March. (Now, don't freak, just cuz I said younger, doesn't mean she's like 15 or something...she and I are VERY close in age. I just turned 21 in May, she just turned 20 in September...however she was way too fucking young with the first one...) THEN, within the past month, two MORE bombs are dropped... My other younger sister, who is only 18, mind you...is preggerz...AND, my 15-year-old niece is pregnant too. Yuppers. Ima be a great-aunt. Wanna know something though? That doesn't bother me as much as the fact that my niece's sister and two brothers are gonna be an aunt and uncles. My oldest niece....whom I remember them bringing home from the hospital like it was yesterday, and whom I was also deathly afraid of, being as my sister told me she was an alien...who's mean and kills the people they come out of, just like that old Sci-fi movie, Alien...grant it, I was only 4 years old back then..but still...this baby...my baby...is going to be an aunt...it's sooooo freaking WEIRD!!! Also, kinda ironic...three generations of my family are having children. Weird, huh? And....this is the LEAST of my worries. For simple laziness, I'll just sum it up in a nutshell: Things have finally gotten so bad between my dad and I that I beat the total shit outta him about two weeks ago. My older sisters are causing soooo much trouble, it isn't even funny. So, once again, not only am I receiving NO help from my parents, because my non-working, baby making, grown ass adult sisters, get their asses wiped...and I'm expected to not only support myself, but NOW I'm told I'm getting kicked out if I don't pay the utilities and become responsible for the foodshopping... Now...how the fuck can I pay for all of that, work enough to make that kinda money, AND go to school full-time?! Which brings me to the beginning of the post. I need to get outta here. |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable  Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 102 days |
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| .... I'm sorry if this sounds kinda bitchy, but has no one in your family heard of birth control?
But yeah, you need to get out of there. Should have as soon as you got out of high school to be honest, but yeah I can understand why you are taking the year off. I wish you all the luck, I have a feeling that you will need it. |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1374 days |
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Originally posted by Elara I will have none of that.  First of all, the question is "accurate" if I'm going to call it something....and second, if it was "bitchy"...well, it's my fault for subjecting myself to such a comment, so either way...
Teehee...sorry...gotta poke fun somehow...it's like...this whole situation...I'm finding the best thing to do is get outta here, and...while I'm going through that process...might as well make fun of their stupidity. XD |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 102 days |
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| It is usually the best thing... and they are acting rather stupidly. Now if only you could get them to wear clown costumes.... | |||
Cyro Xero Rune Mage  Rave Atom  Since: 02-23-05 From: Minnesota!! Since last post: 52 days Last activity: 52 days |
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| That's a lot of women in your family. And you're the only one who isn't/hasn't been pregnant, huh? I guess that's an accomplishment in itself considering you're around people are seemingly getting knocked up left and right. | |||
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1374 days |
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Originally posted by Cyro Xero Well, that's not entirely true either. I miscarried about a year ago. I never said I was better than them. I'm just frustrated that they're letting their problems trickle downhill rather than handle them like responsible adults. Funny thing is, my 15-year-old niece is the most mature thing I've ever seen, regarding this situation...and that's saying something about both sides of the spectrum. See, here's what you do, when the inevitable happens...you do the responsible thing. Grant it, I was pretty lucky in my situation. I have a good boyfriend, who is doing good. Only reason why he isn't working now is because law school doesn't let you the first year. His family is wonderful. As for me, I have a good little set up at GameStop. My boss is VERY good to me. He gave me a big ass raise as soon as I told him the news, and offered to help me out in all sorts of ways, as far as work went. Fact is, not that I should be having babies right now, but, figure last year when I miscarried, I was 20, and though not in the perfect situation, I was in a physical and mental state of well-being. It wouldn't have been easy, but I would have been fine. Again, I'm not perfect myself....I guess it's not the problems of my family that set me off, it's the fact that they can't handle them, and they're oh so good at creating more. |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 102 days |
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| Heh, well you know the saying, "misery loves company"
Maybe it's the secret family motto? But yeah, that your niece is the mature one is kinda sad. I never knew that happened to you, I'm so sorry to hear about it. *hug* |
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