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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"          Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| So, this will be my eleventh niece or nephew. This time the baby belongs to one of my younger sisters...But oh well. Long post ahead by the way...
I'm not too shocked really. It's weird how my family works. As far as sisters go, there's my three older ones, they're closer in age, and then there's a 10 year difference between me and the one that was just before me. Then there's me, and my two younger sisters, we're 18, 17, and 15, so we're close in age, and then there's the babies, they're only 4 and 5. So...we all kinda clutter ourselves into different groups for obvious reasons. Anywho, the 17 year old is the pregnant one. We're not suprised. We all knew she'd be the first out of us. What we ARE shocked about is the fact that we just found out on Wednesday and she was having contractions yesterday. They were prolly from stress more than anything though. But the doctors did say that she was about 8 months, as opposed to the 5 months that she said she thought she was. I haven't seen her since I found out, but I heard she's only barely showing. Prolly something hereditary or something. I remember when their mother was pregnant with my other sister, and she didn't really show, and the pictures tell me that she didn't show with my other sister, so...yeah. I'll have to get pictures though...I have one of her around Christmas time, THEN she shoulda been about 5 months and you can't tell. At all. She was wearing "big" clothes, but nothing big enough to hide it anyways, and she always wears bigger clothes in the winter anyways... Point is, she really didn't give us any way of knowing. I was with her a few times when she got sick, but she was also running a fever, so I just thought she was sick and treated her as such. Though then again, she was always able to give herself fevers by getting herself mentally worked up, so I imagine that's what she did. There's little things that we had no way of knowing then, but now that we think of it we're like "Damn, there was little signs of it." Like the whole period thing...some women CAN get their periods still in the very beginning...someone told me that, I dunno how true that is...but it's also something she and I have inherited from our father's side of the family. Irregular periods. Hell, my aunt is almost 40 and has rarely been regular and her whole time having it, she would skip a month or so once in a while. I know I still do. So when she didn't get it, we didn't think anything of it either. Hell, if we did, then they should've thought we BOTH were pregnant, cuz I was skipping around then too. I know, more information than you guys prolly wanna know. :p But I've just been running through all of the details in my head since I found out. She said she wants me in there with her when she has the baby, and the doctor is going to let me, so...I have a feeling this is going to be "our" baby, since the father is in denial (I'm going to take care of him when I get down there.) and he's such a loser he wouldn't be able to do much even if he DID accept it. Didn't go to school today, because I was talking on the phone with her, and her mother, and our dad all morning. She might come and live with me for a few months, or I'll just have to get my ass in gear and actually get my liscence and go down to her house when I'm not at school or working(Was supposed to have a job interview this week...bastards) Well...the whole family is going to chip in, but she's really been clinging to me. I think she's been contemplating telling us for a few weeks. We don't live together, and with me in college, the two of them in high school, the academic work is much more of a burden(grade school allowed sooo much more free time, and it wasn't too bad when just one of the three of us was in high school). So we haven't seen each other as much this winter than usual, but we call each other once a week at least, always E-mail each other, saw each other on weekends...but these past few weeks, she has been calling me like 20 times a day, and asking me to go down to see them a lot more than usual (and this is the one that I didn't get along with too well!) So I don't know how we're going to work this, but she's going to need help with the baby. I've been put in charge of throwing a baby shower for her. We don't know the gender...the kid wouldn't turn around in the ultrasound! But she hasn't seen it anyways. She refuses to do anything without me and I haven't been able to make the hour and a half trek to where she lives. (Well, I'm going down tonight and staying the weekend.) So...I don't know. Talking to her was awful. I think she was in denial the whole time...She was like a zombie though...and everyone else told me that she isn't saying much to anyone except for asking when I was going to be there. I have no idea why she wants me involved so much. Of course I'd make myself involved if she didn't. I'm not missing out on a niece/nephew, but she doesn't want to do ANYthing without me. I don't know why. She and I were always at each other's throats...secretly we were close I guess. As evil as she was to me (and I mean evil...) she never let anyone else walk in and act that way toward me...unless she was behind it of course. Haha. I dunno.  Just rambling here I guess. This has really only been going on for the past few days, but I'm getting phone calls every half hour at the most, especially today, and I dunno. I'll do anything for my sister, she can ask for anything...it's just pissing me off that the rest of the family is putting more responsibility on me too. Like my dad and her mom. It's like I'll do everything I can, but they haven't even said a word to me about what they're doing about it. Just "She wants you for this...she wants you for that..." Ugh, I dunno.
Nothing I've said prolly has made sense, since I'm just rambling...maybe I can clear it up later.
Edit: Disable layout hardly works for me when I click it while typing a new thread. XD (Last edited by Katana on 02-23-07 02:40 PM) |
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Xeoman Ball and Chain Trooper Administrator  Since: 08-14-04 From: 255 Since last post: 89 days Last activity: 77 days |
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| Mother of god Kat ...
Are you like, the mother-esque one of the family? 
Sounds like it could maybe help rebuild your relationship with your sister here though, I dunno. |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable  Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 101 days Last activity: 101 days |
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| So it finally happened, huh? Well, at least she's near the end of high school rather than in the middle, that is something to be thankful for at the very least. It is ridiculous that they want you to do everything though, that just is not right at all. However I am glad that you have this chance to patch up that long-standing feud between the two of you. | |||
Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5075 days Last activity: 1385 days |
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| It was not my place to comment like that. Sorry Kat. you know I still love ya. (Last edited by Xeios on 02-26-07 06:56 PM) |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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Anyway...I guess they shouldn't ask anything of me, but...I can't help but be glad. This weekend has helped to soothe the nerves a bit and put things into perspective. I would have gotten myself involved anyway, so they just made it easier for me to do that, is all. This baby is coming into the world with two young parents who are scared and have no clue what the hell to do. That automatically establishes a commonality bewteen me and the baby. Not to mention this is all family, and if something happens to this baby, if this baby can't grow up having all he/she deserves, then I would end up feeling somewhat responsible. I know I'm not the one having the baby, but still...I have a lot of good things and that's because people like my aunt and older sisters stepped in to help take care of me. Kinda one of them "pay it forward" kinda deals I guess? I talked with the father...he's at least got a little bit going for him, so things aren't going to be AS messy as they were for me and my sister with the young useless parent thing. I don't really know what's going to happen. I'm so angry at her for not telling us...but I found out that the other abortions she had, her mother made her get them...and she honestly thought she was 5 months pregnant. She didn't want to do that again, and she was getting her period still the first few months of the pregnancy, so I don't blame her for not knowing herself at first. But still...I dunno...I see her in a whole different light though. |
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Leon D. Sagara Zombie Tarma HELLO!!!!! ^_^  Since: 08-18-04 From: To Hell and Back Since last post: 5309 days Last activity: 4789 days |
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| Damn Girl...........LOL seems liek you always have drama at your place X_X
But not to sound for it or anything, but you wouldn't be you if you didn't have drama LOL But I still luv ya |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| Heh. Yeah, drama. S'what I get for having nothing but sisters. XD
Well...shit is hitting the fan...people are being assholes...hell, the most mature ones out of this whole mess are us "kids", in my honest opinion. I really can't say much here though because this isn't just my tough situation. It involves a lot of other people, so yeah... BUT...she's naming the baby Ariel Marie.  I dunno if she's going to let the baby have the father's last name or the baby will have her's. **shrugs** |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| **does the double post**
Sry...people need to post good things more often in this forum...XD So, just last week, my little sister had a beautiful baby girl. She was named Mikayla Lynne...and she looks just like her father. Things are working out great with my sister and the baby's father. They apparently did stay good friends...she was prolly just mad at him for something and went to make him look bad in front of me to get me mad at him...so yeah. I appologized to him like a million times...AND in front of people. Be proud. XD
The baby is so cool though and my sister is actually really cute with the baby. The little brat farted in her face one day and my sister was soooo excited. She was like "Look! She farted! That means she's alive!!" She's been doing that...like amazed that she brought this living thing into the world. It's really neat to watch. She's grown up so much. Now if only she'd get rid of the obsessive boyfriend she has now. That's a different story though. 
But yeah...new baby! XD
Aaaannnd...I had Brielle overnight last night...she's four months old, almost 5 months...she's so cute! I love her! |
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Leon D. Sagara Zombie Tarma HELLO!!!!! ^_^ Since: 08-18-04 From: To Hell and Back Since last post: 5309 days Last activity: 4789 days |
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| Good to Hear Kat. Glad something positive came from your predicament. | |||
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| Well, I posted the only pics of me and the baby in the photoalbum thread, but here's other pics. I figured I'd post a bunch of pics of teh family since I talk about them all the time and this is essentially a thread about family...XD
This is one of my younger sisters and the new baby Mikayla. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/CeilieandMikayla.jpg This is my other younger sister(The mommy) and baby Mikayla. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/DSCF0283.jpg These are my oldest two nieces and my older sister Tisha. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/DSCF0138.jpg My gorgeous oldest nieces and my sister Nicole (Their mommy) http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/DSCF0133.jpg My niece Cara and oldest nephew Joey http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/DSCF0150.jpg Cara and baby Dennis and baby Brielle http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/DSCF0172.jpg Baby Brielle and her big brother Vincent. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/DSCF0233.jpg Baby Brielle http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/KatanaAlasol/DSCF0078.jpg And I need to get recent pics of baby Lindsey and Kylie. Yes, I know I'm prolly a bit biased, but I have a pretty family. My nieces and nephews are the most beautiful kids I have ever laid eyes on. They make me so proud. |
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Xeoman Ball and Chain Trooper Administrator Since: 08-14-04 From: 255 Since last post: 89 days Last activity: 77 days |
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| Biggest ... family ... ever? |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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Originally posted by Odin Heh. I still have two nieces and three sisters, and a brother-in-law( who is more my brother than anything) that weren't included. I need recent pics of them. |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 101 days Last activity: 101 days |
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| Well, I have to ecco Xeo there... holy shit, Kat! But yeah, cute baby... and I must say your sister's reactions must be very amusing to watch. | |||
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Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5075 days Last activity: 1385 days |
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| P-P-P-Procreation!
Uh.... Yea... Her family makes babies uber-fast. Uber-uber-fast in fact. |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| Haha. Yeah. My sister's reactions are pretty funny. She punched me upside the head the other day though because I kept poking the baby. She's really boring. Even for her age. :p
And yah, Xei...to think my oldest niece had a crush on you...which isn't much of a step up over her crush on Toast...
She's moved on to real men now though. |
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Leon D. Sagara Zombie Tarma HELLO!!!!! ^_^ Since: 08-18-04 From: To Hell and Back Since last post: 5309 days Last activity: 4789 days |
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| WOW
You were never kidding when you told me that you had a H U G E Family were you Kat LOL Your neices are as tall as their MOM |
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