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Broken Dreams Thief          Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6629 days Last activity: 6629 days |
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| I was just wondering sense everyone in the world has different taste in what they like, if you were to fall in love with your dream person, what kind of person would they be?
Now I know looks don't matter to most people, looks don't matter to me but I am sincerely asking, what would you dream person smell like? Look like? act like? What would there personalties be? for years I was always told "oh you never going to find some one if you act this way" So I always been trying to be the best as I could be, for no real good reason I do not understand I always tried to be some body's dream person because I wanted to feel needed but I stopped that I realized you can't, you have to be yourself and someday you will find someone who likes you and just you, and only you... Sorry for my blabbering I was just curious what peoples dream person was.... I would say mine would be a calm smooth talker, a guy that would never hit me or yell at me on purpose to be mean. Someone who is caring, they don't have to show it, just someone who would love me, and only me. A partner, a friend, a shoulder I could cry on when needed. He doesn't even have to be romantic just someone that shows every once in a while that he loves me to make me feel special about myself, someone that I can return the feelings, someone like me. His scent would be smooth and nice something I could fall asleep to while he is holding me in his arms. Nice smile, Nice calm eyes, never really shows much anger. Positive about most things, always there when needed, a person I can count on. I like dark hair but in fact it wouldn't really matter when you could find a person with that kind of personality. |
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Black Lord Koopa Since: 12-12-04 Since last post: 5625 days Last activity: 5625 days |
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| Let me describe my girlfriend I have now, cause honestly, she is the girl of my dreams.
She's very caring, always wondering how I am. The reason I like this is because I'm always making sure she's alright. So, basically we have eachother's backs if you can call it that. Gotta like me for the person who I am. Not because I have a six-pack, or because she likes taller guys, but she's gotta like me for the person I am. While the physical attraction can help, it's not gonna keep you together forever. Gotta do things that shows that she cares about me. Ex. calling at 1:30 in the morning just to hear my voice because she is having troubles getting to sleep. Wanting me to come over to her house late at night, even if it's only for 30 minutes, because she wants to see me. Gotta be able to get and appreciate sarcasm. So this isn't that big of a deal. But I'm sarcastic a lot. I mean a lot. I don't think a girl would be able to tolerate me if she didn't understand sarcasm. Gotta be smart. I can't stand stupid girls. They piss the hell out of me. But it's still okay to have a few blonde moments here and there. Cuz we all have them. I have a lot. Gotta be able to stand my family. My family is a bit crazy sometimes. And if she can't handle them, it's too bad for her, because I love my family dearly, and will never part from them. Gotta like romantic type things. Because at heart, I am very romantic. I like to do little things for her just to brighten her day up. I like to lay on a beach, and talk while looking at the stars for the Little Dipper. I like to shower her in roses. I like to have a romantic dinner. I like to spend a night just cuddling next to her and talking, while watching some sappy movie. Those are just some things, and right now, I believe I have found my dream girl, or the one girl for me. So that's all. I'll add a little more to my list later. |
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Xeoman Ball and Chain Trooper Administrator  Since: 08-14-04 From: 255 Since last post: 91 days Last activity: 79 days |
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| Hmmm ...
Well, for looks I'll try to explain my best. She'd have to be shorter than me, maybe by 2-3 inches or so. There's just something about me being bigger and some what of a "man with my women" thing that I like. Her eyes have to be bright, and light up with nice eyelashes. Eyes are probably among the most beautiful things in the world, in my opinion. She'd have long dark brown hair, not extremely long, but a few inches past the neck probably. And I'd hope that she'd be smaller than me, weight and height, and just in every way mainly, not because it would make me feel superior or anything, I just think it would be romantic and nice to have a girl that I could just pick up and carry around and hold in my arms. And above all and up there with her eyes, she'd have an excellent smile that would captivate you at an instant. And her voice would be soft, and -somewhat- high, or just like most girls I guess? As for her personally, this could be complicated but I'll try my best, and I'll try not to embarass myself. I'd like for her to be friendly, and maybe touchy. She could take a handful of jokes, and sarcasm, and she herself can be very humorous, but she knows when to be serious (kind of like myself). I'd like for her to be outgoing, but with my personality ... I'd hate it if she were a girl who would just go around hugging guys all over the place, I can honestly say from my own point of view I might have a strong sense of jealousy. I wouldn't want an uptight girl, who thinks they're the best, but she respects herself highly, and myself. And I wouldn't want a girl who wouldn't want to have fun. Example, maybe some nights this girl and I could sneak out into the night, and just run around the city for fun? She'd have to be willing to be somewhat daring and have fun. And I'd like for her to be emotional, whether it's with things in life or from just simply watching a movie. I myself can get emotional during movies and such, although I never literally "cry" during movies, sometimes I feel like I want to. I just think it would be akward for me to be the tearing one, and not her. But, I guess that's me looking at things in general in our world. But, mainly I'd like this girl to be my friend, my best friend above anyone else. Someone who I could completely trust, and open up to about anything without her ending up hating me or something, and she'd be the same with me. She'd enjoy spending time with me, whether it's among others or by ourselves. And although I say this in sort of a humorous manner ... -hopefully- she's an excellent cook. 
Well that's all I can think of now, reading over my post though it seems incomplete ... Basically though, I can sum the most of what I said up in a short sentence: I'd like a girl who would be willing to be my best friend. (Last edited by Xeomega on 06-23-05 01:11 PM) |
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Broken Dreams Thief Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6629 days Last activity: 6629 days |
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| wow I didn't think people would actually post in here and tell there thoughts o.o alot of reading but I read it all. I think it's very cool. =)
I agree with what you on what you say, xeo. about the girl being a little shorter, I think I would feel more comfy if my guy was taller and had arms big enough to wrap around me, for that safe comfy feeling. (Last edited by Broken Dreams on 06-23-05 04:20 PM) |
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Cairoi This isn't about you and your loud mouth, This is about me and my fucking beard. Since: 08-29-04 From: PA Since last post: 4851 days Last activity: 4475 days |
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| Hmmm...This is a question I've asked myself a lot.
I would need someone that understands who I am on the inside is radically different than the outside. On the outsidem I'm a normal long-haired joker. On the inside, I am an intellectual person who has an overwhelming emapthy due to the rapid bad things happening to me and others lately, and I am philisophical. Also, I could never be truley happy with someone politically focused. I can't see someone as Democrat or Republican, just who they are. Someone fun is a must, cause if someone's boring, then eventually you'll be bored too. That's just heartache for free. Also, I'd hope they can be serious. I have a tendancy to be jealous sometimes, but not excessively. 
I don't care about cooking at all, cause I can do that. I am my dad's son. My dad is the weirdest person on earth, so I hope they can stand him. I hope that they have a taste in music, no matter whatever style. Appearances don't matter. You can't judge someone by thier outside alone. Also, they'd have to deal with my "anarchy" rants once in a while, but a lot of people do. THere. |
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Xeoman Ball and Chain Trooper Administrator Since: 08-14-04 From: 255 Since last post: 91 days Last activity: 79 days |
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Originally posted by Broken Dreams I guess when you're alone a lot, like myself, you put a lot of thought into that "Dream Person". *sigh* ... |
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Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5077 days Last activity: 1387 days |
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| I have that thing where the girl has to be shorter. It's not an uncommon thing for me, being so tall and what not. But a do like them shorter.
She has to be cute, I am not too superficial, but looks spark the initial attraction, so without them there really would never be a relationship. A girl who has a sexy side, but can keep control of herself. She would be humerous, intelligent, and a generally nice person. She would be skinny. Not anorexic, but be skinny. I am a skinny person, so it would just be wierd if she wasn't. Nice eyes, good length of hair. Nice teeth. good Hygeine. And overall, someone who just loves me, because of the way I am... |
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BrokenShards Newcomer Since: 06-24-05 Since last post: 7078 days Last activity: 7078 days |
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| I feel weird only posting in the love related topics in this forum...but im a romantic...anyway sorry for getting on a tangent there...
My dream girl...Well, I'll basically describe my girl friend, because, well...I don't think I could find a more perfect person for me. There are some traits she doesn't have that I want her to have, but its okay. As far as physical goes, they'd have to be a little shorter than me. Not much shorter. Brown hair, that is kinda curly when they dont do anything to it, but straight when they do something to it. They'd have to have beautiful brown eyes that make me melt when I look into them...and a smile that just makes me smile. Their voice would have to sound really sweet, and they'd have to sound like a two year old over the phone, because its just cute. They'd have to be fairly good looking in the body area...that might sound shallow, but its true for me...i dont want some anorexic (sp?) girl because that turns me off...but no one deathly obese. As far as personality goes, funny is a must. Someone with a sense of humor like mine. Someone that thinks I'm funny. Someone crazy enough to think I'm good looking. Someone sweet, and caring. Someone more stubborn than me. Now, the things my gf doesn't have, are I want someone who...well talks a good bit. Because I only get started talking when someone talks to me. Someone who wants to cuddle, and let me hold them. My gf doesn't like for me to do that because no one else has done it with her before, and I think she's scared I'm going to hurt her. But thats my dream girl in a nut shell.... |
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WhiteRose Warrior Sailor Delerium Have you ever spent days and days and days making up flavors of ice cream that no ones ever eaten before? Like chicken and telephone ice cream?...Green mouse ice cream was the worst.  Since: 08-17-04 From: The Dreaming Since last post: 4455 days Last activity: 5158 days |
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| Well as corney as it may seem, I have my perfect guy.
Physically, taller than me. Strong, long hair, facial hair, which is red . Never thought about eyes, aside from they had to be a light color, and my GuardianOni eyes are not only a light color, but they shift to different shades of blue and green and gray. (Dear Goddess I love his eyes)
Personality: Wow, lots of aspects here and he seems to have them all. He loving, caring, protective (of everyone he cares for). Also genourous (sp?), smart (though he doesn't think so), sweet and funny. He's compasinate, love nature. Can appreciate beauty and is not afraid to point it out. Is very perceptive and determined and reliable. There are more, but if he reads this, he'll be turning beat red and planning on how to get me back (I love you dea ). |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable  Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 103 days Last activity: 103 days |
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| Hmn... this ought to be interesting.
My dream guy: Physical traits: At least 5'9" or 5'10", I'd rather not be the taller one. About my weight or heavier, preferably heavier by 10 lbs or so (just so I don't feel so damn fat), but have most of it be from muscle... though he must be squishy. He'd have dark hair and pale skin, with eyes that drew your attention to them. I don't care what color they are to be honest (though I seem to have a thing for hazel eyes or dark brown), but the thing that matters to me is that they are expressive. Personality traits: Romantic, will do/say random sweet things to let me know that they love me. Likes to go out and have fun, but is just as happy to stay home with me and cuddle or watch a movie/play videogames. A D&D player would be a plus as well. Great sense of humor, oddball, and not much of a temper... not abusive at all. He would be someone that treats me like an equal not as someone lower than him. Willing to go to family functions with me so that I don't go insane from boredom, even though my family is annoying as hell for the most part. He would love me for who I am, for my personality and mind as well as my body (yes, I'd like him to be delusional enough to think I'm hot). Not obsessed with sex to a degreee that makes me uncomfortable, and not afraid of being bitten/scratched. He would be loyal, and not even tempted by other women. Some form of Pagan would be best, since I still want that Wiccan wedding, or at least someone that is fine with that. He would also be someone that makes me feel safe, someone that I could trust 100% with ease. Other stuff: Since I've learned what it is like to have it otherwise, I want his parents to like me. Since it's my "dream guy" there would most likely be a wedding later on, and I don't want to be enemies with his parents! Mild sense of responsibility would be required, since I don't want to deal with a person who can't manage their money and who goofs off when they really shouldn't. Nice, steady, goodpaying job that still lets them have a decent amount of free time so that I can see him. ... and yes, I am fully aware that this man does not exist. |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"  Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1558 days Last activity: 1375 days |
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| People like that do exist...might not be word for word how people describe them, but I dunno...that same attraction someone may feel for that "dream person" will be there when they really meet them. **nods**
Lesse...my dream boy... He would be 6'1, dark brown eyes and not too tan. He'll have a bit of a farmer's tan **giggles** But it wouldn't be too bad. Cute at most. He'll have black hair, but with also a bunch of other colors that are slightly visible, like a little bit of crimson. He'll have glasses as well. He'll be strong too. Strong in every way possible. He'll be a great cook. **nods** He'd have a voice that'd make me wanna swoon every time I hear it (Yes, I'm a bit of a romantic at times too) He'd have a sense of humor and he'd be highly intelligent. As far as hygine and such is concerned, then looks in those aspects are important to me. How can you care for someone else if you don't care for yourself? Ya know? And to be honest...he'd be someone that's VERY difficult for me to describe. Someone whom the feelings are there for, but the words aren't. Which is why I'm having difficulty making this post, other than posting some basic things... |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 103 days Last activity: 103 days |
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| Yeah... I agree about the whole being hard to describe thing, you have no idea of how many things I feel that I've left out in my post. Like the cooking thing... that would be SO awesome!
I just highly doubt that any guy out there has all of those traits that I want... like perhaps they won't have 2 or 3 of them. Hell, I can list three or four guys off the top of my head that fit my list for the most part... but that is besides the point. |
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Rogue If you're reading this... You are the Resistance Since: 08-17-04 Since last post: 637 days Last activity: 445 days |
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| Love is blind and I HATE when people place physical requirements on their mates. It's stupid to me, no offense.
It's just my luck that Zoso has the most beautiful eyes and gives the warmest hugs and kisses, though.
When it comes to what I like in a man it's all in the personality. I would like him to be open-minded, have a good sense of humor, be somewhat intelligent, and ultimately just be a pleasant person to be around. I want (have) a man that I can have fun with and collect strings of unforgetable moments with. |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1558 days Last activity: 1375 days |
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| I see what you mean Rogue. Though the only thing physical that I have always placed on that "dream person" is just how they present themselves, like do they care enough about themselves to care about others.
Other than that...there is a reason why I am able to be so percise on the physical description  **grins** And even now, I still can't describe him, nor the feeling. I know I feel it and I could put words to it...They just wouldn't make sense...I've tried.  |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 103 days Last activity: 103 days |
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| I don't care all that much for physical appearances either to be honest... but this is the "dream guy" so I just went with the requirements. I just kinda went with what I liked best out of features of guys that I have loved... and that overlaps for the most part. | |||
GuardianOni Shaman  Since: 09-07-04 From: The dark path Since last post: 5843 days Last activity: 5302 days |
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| Dream girl eh?
Lets see, about 5'8". Long streight hair, of either a really dark, or really light color. A fighter, or rouge, or a little of bolth. And either a moon elf, or drow... =P Seriously... It would be someone who just loved me for me. Someone who would let me hold them, and care for them. Someone strong in personality, and spirt. Someone with a great sence of humor. Some I can feel comfortable talking to, and opening my heart to. A friend first. Someone not afraid of telling me what they think. Physically... One could make an argument that I've drawn my "dream girl." But it really isn't that much of a big deal to me. Like Elara physical appearances aren't that big of a deal to me, but it's just answering the question. To WhiteRose: =P quiet you. I am not... To Elara: They exist. And you will have your pick. |
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venomouslobster Scarfy  Since: 05-03-05 From: california (knows how to party) Since last post: 6331 days Last activity: 5579 days |
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| her body is flawless
her smokey voice drips with secrets and lust and above all, enthusiasm for life. She speaks with authority on many subjects, while her passions and interests entwine closley with mine. her eyes beckon and her full red hair washes over her back like a fountain of wine. she holds her cigarettes (yes she smokes but only in moderation) with the tips of her fingers, away from her body, pointing up to the sky...she rolls her own the place she lives will be as lush as her body, but messy, cluttered with baubles and trinkets collected from thither and yon. she will have few hangups or scruples and those she did have would be cute and inconsequential she would be very mildly frightened of me her skin and form could be described as tawney. she will be graceful when she wishes and clumsy when she isnt thinking about it. she will think i am hilarious (she will be wrong but i dont care) she will be silly, but not crazy she will be good with money she could be made to climax by a slight breeze she will wear mismatched socks she will dress in clothes appropriate to several different time periods, rarely will any of them be now she will know where and how to efficiantly dispose of a body she will have no body hair or any sign of body hair she will have several small unobtrusive tattoos she will know absolutly nothing about cooking she will have the patience of buddha she will own a large handgun she will be athletic, and force me to join her in her athleticism she will get me drunk and take advantage of me she will be creative she will have the sex drive of an Arcturian Megarabbit she will be flirty at parties but NEVER cross the line between being winsome and cute, to making me jealous....(its a really thin line) she will be lots of fun to hang out with wherever and be equally at home at a black tie movie opening party as she would be sitting on my couch eating chips and giggling at poorly dubbed hentai she will make love to me all night and then leave before i wake up, having ordered me a pizza while i was unconcious... ..and drawn a humermous picture on my head in marker |
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Broken Dreams Thief Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6629 days Last activity: 6629 days |
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| Veno wins the dream person lol!!!! wow that is sure alot to be asking in a dream person =o people so picky. ( not meaning any of you ) I'm just saying sounds like alot to be asking but it's cool this is a person's dream person thread so people can say what ever they want ;} (Last edited by Broken Dreams on 07-06-05 02:35 AM) |
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GuardianOni Shaman Since: 09-07-04 From: The dark path Since last post: 5843 days Last activity: 5302 days |
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Originally posted by Broken Dreams What? I stand by my dream of either a Drow or Moon elf... =P But it's ture that this is about our "Dream person" But it's intersting that there are a lot of people that say looks aren't important to them. I think it's cool people don't find it all that important. But it's still a thought on our minds... This is an intersting topic. |
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