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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"          Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| I hope you all are just as shocked as I am, because apparently, I am pregnant. According to my family. I know young pregnancies are a serious thing, so I don't mean to mock that particular subject, but I was hoping to convey some of the shock and disbelief I'm feeling right now.
Of course, since there's been other shit going on, that I'm not going to be emo and bitch about at this moment (though I may turn Emo later) and I'm just plain stressed and worn out, and my family is now making an obscene assumption that I can't convince them otherwise, I am poking fun at their stupididy, not the subject of teenage pregnancy. (I said I wasn't going to be Emo at this current moment...Cynical is a more appropriate word, however.) Hell, last time I had sex was over a year ago, for one...and another, I have my fricken period! Sorry if the bluntness offends anyone...but...grr...they're assuming that I'm pregnant because A) They said I have been suffering from some serious mood swings...which I have, but for obvious reasons! Project 13 posted an article in General that I can't help but smile at. People do have reasons for feeling sad, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them. B) They're all claiming that for the past few weeks, with the exception of the last few days, I have been all "glowy", like my skin tone and stuff....(I drink a lot of water, so that's the reason for the nice skin, damn it!) **shrugs** So women are "glowy" when they get pregnant? Wtf is that? O_o C) The other day my sister came in the bathroom RIGHT after I did, so the numbers on the scale were still on, and she saw that I had gained some weight...now this was two days before my period, that's how I know I'm getting it! I gain about 5 pounds the two days before it, lose 2 when I actually get it, and then lose the last three after my second day! Apparently they've been a bit concerned because they see that my body has been changing lately too...It happens! A woman's body changes every seven years! It's been seven years since I started the whole period thing! And yes, I'm finally growing out of my little girl body and am gaining a slight figure! Lesse...oh, and I'm gaining more muscle. So yes, I look a little different. Nothing enough that you can see in a picture though, but enough if you're in person and you've known me for a few years. Why am I going through all this detail? Because this is what's going through my mind, and I need to try and get all these facts out there and I need some opinions. Is my family fricken insane right now?! Or am I nuts for thinking THEY'RE nuts?! I just...don't know what to do with them. For once, I'M fine. I'M doing good. I'M having a BLAST at work, I'm getting excited about the academic changes I am about to make, I've been feeling good about myself...having a bit of "guy" trouble right now, but I've been through worse, and it's not even major dude problems...I got myself in order. I got all sorts of priorities straightened out, and they're all within my reach. But, then, shit hits the fan with the family. Shit that has nothing to do with me actually, with the exception of one issue, but that will be fine. So, my family has gone nuts, and they're all cornering me, trying to find something wrong with me. I have a BIG family, and more than just my immediate family is doing this to me, so it's REALLY getting to be overwhelming. Heh...for once I'm fine...and yet I think things are crazier than they have been since...ever. O_o But yeah...nothing I'm saying is convincing them...they think that I'm scared and just trying to pull away from them because of that fear. ugf ldsyciknld It's REALLY pissing me off...and confusing me. 
**takes a breath** Sorry. I HAD to get all this out. |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable  Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 101 days Last activity: 101 days |
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| Well, you said you're about to get your period, yes? After day one wave the first bloody pad/tampon in their faces and ask them to explain how you could have a period if you're pregnant. Have someone there with a camera to get their expression, it should be funny.
If that doesn't work, or would take too long, just get a test done and show them the results. But the first idea would be much more satisfying. ... And just for the record, I would actually do that myself if it were me. But then again, I'm kind of a bitch like that.  (Last edited by Elara on 07-23-07 04:52 AM) |
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Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5075 days Last activity: 1385 days |
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| Listen Kat. You're family is thinking poorly of you because every other female in your family has gotten preggos at a young age.
Alright, one easy way, go buy a home pregnancy test. Show them the unopened box. Enter bathroom. Piss on stick. Show them the results and opened box with pregnancy test missing. That'll shut them up. Listen, I am glad things are going great (except this) and tell them everything's great. They're idiots if they don't believe you. |
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Cairoi This isn't about you and your loud mouth, This is about me and my fucking beard. Since: 08-29-04 From: PA Since last post: 4850 days Last activity: 4473 days |
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| You should bleed on them.
See how they like it. |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| That was a few days ago. I'm actually on my second day and all 5 pounds I gain are gone. XD Also, my sister, she had her period the first three months of her pregnancy....either that or something was wrong...they're insisting on not believing ANYTHING until I see a doctor. None of this makes sense to me.
I hope no one is mad. FX said it was mean.  I wasn't trying to "prank" anyone to sit and go "Haha." I just...It's really difficult to explain just how confused and shocked I am right now, with just words. Like, I've been "confused" and "shocked" before...but so far, this takes the cake. And those simple words don't do the emotion justice. |
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Rogue If you're reading this... You are the Resistance Since: 08-17-04 Since last post: 635 days Last activity: 443 days |
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| You had me worried for a minute there.
Seriously, stress can destroy you completely and utterly. Up until I got my period earlier this month, I'd missed it 3 months in a row. Despite not showing any signs and being pretty sure that I was safe every time, I was sweating buckets. Enough about my shit, I second Elara's comment. Your family it nutzo.  |
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Makura Since: 01-22-05 From: The restaurant at the end of the universe.... Since last post: 5888 days Last activity: 5153 days |
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| I thought you were serious. 0_0 I hope venting helped, I don't know that I can say anything that will really help, but A YEAR. Get laid, already. (Sorry, I'm really shallow).
Your family will let up, why don't you just prove that they're wrong? |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1556 days Last activity: 1373 days |
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| Lol. Yeah, I know. :p Nothing shallow about it. Ha. I just haven't had time to devote to a serious relationship like that. I'm not as prudish about sex as I used to be either...but I still couldn't sleep with someone unless there was SOME kind of spark, ya know?
I don't know what's going on. My one sister, the one who just HAD a baby, she'll be 18 in September...she just faked a pregnancy for attention...and my other sister, who won't be 16 until August just had a miscarriage (her situation is horrible though and undeserved, I'll leave it at that...) Venting did help, A LOT. S'been a while since I truly vented. I've been so caught up in trying not to focus on the bad and just focus on the good, and for the most part it's worked. It just kinda hurts more now, I was doing so good, so the fall was further than it usually is. Thanks for listening. Its really meant a lot right now. For now I'm just going to ignore them. They keep hugging me, doing the whole "everything is going to be alright" and the more I fight it, the more concerned I get. Besides, I need to see a doctor anyways. Nothing's wrong, just a check up on the whole cyst situation from a few years ago. =/ |
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Fennicy Fox of all Foxes Since: 06-13-07 From: Washington Since last post: 6103 days Last activity: 6108 days |
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| Well I agree with Elara's idea, but also even if you don't do anything about it I'm sure they'll notice that you aren't getting the stomach for it. ^^jj
And once they realize their mistake I hope they learn to trust you a little more. Sorry the post is a little late but I've been off the computer for a little while. |
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Bitmap #1 Enhancement Shaman US Ravenholdt  Since: 09-05-04 From: His Laughin' Place Since last post: 4558 days Last activity: 4552 days |
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| Wait, are they hugging you because they still think you are pregnant?
If so. . . .wtf |
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nuit Goomba Since: 03-04-07 Since last post: 5401 days Last activity: 4086 days |
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| After you get the negative results from any testing you undergo, be sure to ask your family "So is it cool with you guys if I really do get pregenant then? Ill let Johnny know he doesn't have to pull out next time." |
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