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True Flight

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Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 10-07-11 07:29 AM Link | Quote
That's right I have a ton of them. One of them is about to be announced right now. I don't know if I should wait til I HAVE to tell them or just let them down slowly.

Labor Day weekend was an EXTREMELY eventful weekend. Turns out that it was so eventful I conceived. That's right hubby came over for the weekend and I am now 4 weeks along if my math is correct.

I have two pee sticks and a blood test to prove it.

Now when to tell mom. She's going to be MAAAAAD. XD It's just how she is. "I'm too young to be a gramma!!! I'll be your grams age when your kid reaches her 20s!!"

I mean I can say Married couples have kids all the time. This time I am having a kid who was only 2% likely to actually make it through. Yeah I'm on the pill... XD And it didn't work this time.

I'm more worried about school and miscarriage though. I have cut the smoking off and the drinking is done. (I WANT MY BODY BACK DAMMIT!) I am going through a chest cold which really sucks. I hate this feeling.

However what ever is coming around that 9 month bend will be awesome.

On a side note... Why is it that women who are NOT TTC wind up conceiving? XD
Elara

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Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 10-07-11 06:50 PM Link | Quote
OMG, congrats!!

And as to why... fate has a cruel sense of humor?
Cteno

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Since: 01-11-05

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Posted on 10-07-11 08:48 PM Link | Quote
*SQUEALS!!!*

Omigawd, congrats!! I hope your mother takes it with a grain of salt, at least!
Astrophel
Fear will kill your mind and steal your love as sure as anything;
Fear will rob you blind and make you numb to others suffering









Since: 10-03-04
From: Azul Lux Orbital, Kirin Beta

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Posted on 10-07-11 10:53 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Sorcha Rohan

Now when to tell mom. She's going to be MAAAAAD. XD It's just how she is. "I'm too young to be a gramma!!! I'll be your grams age when your kid reaches her 20s!!"

So, wait.

She's too young to be a grandmother.

She'll be your grandmother's age when your kid is in his or her 20s.

You are in your 20s.

I, um...

What?
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 10-08-11 04:57 AM Link | Quote
My mom's in her late 40s. She had my older brother when she was 22 I believe.

I have been told it's weird because my grams is in her early/late 60s. Eric's grandmother is in her 90s now. Eric's parents are in their late 60s now.

I have younger grandparents and younger parents.
Astrophel
Fear will kill your mind and steal your love as sure as anything;
Fear will rob you blind and make you numb to others suffering









Since: 10-03-04
From: Azul Lux Orbital, Kirin Beta

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Posted on 10-08-11 03:02 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Sorcha Rohan
My mom's in her late 40s. She had my older brother when she was 22 I believe.

That's my point.

It sounds like she's whining about you doing the exact same thing she did.
Elara

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Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 10-08-11 06:46 PM Link | Quote
Indeed, quite hypocritical.

You're not going to do those freaky belly photos are you?
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 10-08-11 08:50 PM Link | Quote
um... no lol not my style.
Elara

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Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 10-08-11 08:59 PM Link | Quote
Oh good. Those things are just... yeah... wtf?
Xeoman

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Since: 08-14-04
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Posted on 10-08-11 10:49 PM Link | Quote
My parents are even younger if that makes you feel any better, lol. Not that kids are in my vocabulary at all right now. Chances are my younger sister will probably have kids first...

First off CONGRATS and as for this kind of secret... well, you can't hide it forever obviously, heh. So I'd probably say dropping the ball the sooner the better perhaps.
True Flight

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Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 10-09-11 03:42 AM Link | Quote
Like I said before I do plan on telling them after the 1st trimester. In case I miscarry or something. I know I do have to tell them... which is fine... I just don't want their sympathies... It's hard enough to deal with them.
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Since: 09-05-04
From: His Laughin' Place

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Posted on 10-09-11 06:14 AM Link | Quote
So does this mean I am gonna be an uncle again?

Cause that would be cool
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 10-09-11 08:00 PM Link | Quote
Oh Bitmap yes you will be an uncle again more than likely. Keep the parents clueless please.
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

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Posted on 10-09-11 09:51 PM Link | Quote
Congrats hun! Please update us. Miscarriages are one of the most heartbreaking things to experience. Wouldn't wish it in my worst enemy. So, I'm REALLY hoping for the best for you, hun.

And it all comes in 3's. My oldest niece, my little cousin, and now you.
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 12-01-11 10:50 AM Link | Quote
just an update. I told the family. They took the news a lot better than I thought. it was really weird!!! My siblings are excited about a niece or nephew and my mom has already predicted it's going to be a boy. O_o anyway my mom told me one was ENOUGH if I wanted to juggle this right.
Elara

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Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 12-02-11 02:43 AM Link | Quote
Juggle what? Hard to juggle just one thing... but yeah, I am glad they took it well like they should.
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 12-03-11 11:05 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Elara
Juggle what? Hard to juggle just one thing... but yeah, I am glad they took it well like they should.


My schooling.
Elara

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Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 12-06-11 07:10 PM Link | Quote
Ah, yes, that is a fun pair to juggle... but if anyone can handle it, you can.

I beweive in you!
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

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Posted on 12-13-11 07:06 PM Link | Quote


Yes, belly photos are weird. But I too am glad they took it well.

So excited! Keep us updated!!!
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